Six years ago tonight was our first date! We went to dinner and then Andy brought me home as Mike(good friend of mine) and I were leaving early the next morning to drive to Indiana. I remember being really nervous and hoping that it would go really well. Our dinner ended up taking about 3 hours as we just talked and talked and talked. Andy drove me home, walked me to the door, and wished me a safe trip back to Indiana. He was leaving for Vegas two days later and said he'd call me when he got back so we could go out again. I was really hoping he'd call when he got back but a small part of me tried to convince myself that if he didn't, it was no big deal. I hadn't had much luck with dating since I had moved to Colorado so I was preparing myself that he wouldn't call. Don't get me wrong...I really really really wanted to go out on another date with Andy.
The next day Mike and I took off bright and early for the 17 hour drive back to Indiana. The first 4 hours was me telling Mike all about the date and analyzing everything. Poor Mike..he probably wanted to drop me off in the middle of Kansas. Mike was great though and let me go on and on and on. A week later on the way back to Colorado from Indiana, Mike had to listen to me say over and over..if he doesn't call, his loss...I really want him to call but if not no big deal...Why do guys say they call and then don't...He'll call....I just know he's not going to call...once again I'm sure Mike was ready to drop me off in the middle of Kansas.
The day after we got back from Indiana....Andy called and we planned our 2nd date a few days later. YEAH!!! Mike was right..."Sara, there are good guys who do call when they say they are going too. Stop analyzing and just go with it."
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